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November 10, 2007

The Beginning of the Beginning

WHEW! I have been on one amazing ride this year. It seems it has been filled with ups and downs and everything in between. I feel this quickening happening and a grand sense of adventure around every corner. I never know what the next day might bring to me.

It has been a few months since I have put out a newsletter, thank you for all your letters wondering where I am and what I have been up to.

I just finished shooting my DVD series based on my book entitled RED HOT TOUCH. So I have been engulfed with the shoot and editing process. Just last week I was able to take a break for some of my own personal growth to attend the Ipsalu Tantra Level Three Training. This month I will be working in Sedona, Phoenix and Tucson and attending the ASEP conference for Sexual Energy Professionals. As I continue to educate myself about the many forms of sacred sexuality I am amazed that there is always more to learn and experience.

My new website www.missjaiya.com is almost complete. Be sure to check the Media page for a behind the scenes clip of Femme-a-Femme erotic massage. My e-book entitled You’re Sexy When you Eat Like is also available for purchase through New World Sex Education. Later this month the first DVD of my RED HOT TOUCH series will be available for purchase. You can view a preview at www.redhottouch.com .

Please keep an eye out for workshops, books, DVDs and new forms of erotic work.

I am so ecstatic to announce the release of Femme-a- Femme Erotic Massage with Kenneth Ray Stubbs. Some of you may remember me working on this project back in April. The DVD is now available and the book is expected to be released in the spring of 2008. The DVD is a beautifully displayed celebration of women sharing erotic touch and sensuality. I also had the honor of doing the instructional voice over for the video, which is enhanced by originally composed music. If you would like to purchase a copy please CLICK HERE.

New Photos

Please enjoy these stills that were taken during a shoot in Sedona Arizona for a DVD I am doing on Tantric Self Pleasuring for Women.

It was the most beautiful day up on the Mesa and I had an ecstatic experience that was beyond words. If you have not been to Sedona I highly, highly, highly recommend getting there and experiencing the glory of this sacred land.

Schedule

My home base is Now Los Angeles CA. When I am not traveling I will be available there.

November 9-15 and 20-25

Sedona AZ

Nov. 15-20

Mesa AZ ASEP Conference

Nov. 26-29

Tucson, AZ

Nov. 30-Dec. 25

Los Angeles CA

The Mysterious Vulva and Its Wonders

By Miss Jaiya

The vulva is this mysterious and beautiful part of the human body that is usually underestimated and under touched. So often during sexual encounters penetration of the vagina occurs quickly and the vulva, which has so many exquisite pleasure opportunities, is left untouched. Then there is the clitoris, which is part of the vulva, but not the only part. Often times the clitoris is concentrated on and the inner and out lips are ignored. So how do we give the vulva the attention it desires?

First we have to learn the proper anatomy, whether you have a vulva and are self pleasuring or you are working with a partner who has a vulva, you will need to know what you are working with. The mysterious thing about vulvas is that every single one of them are different, but once you have a basic understanding you will have a good guide to begin with. First find the outer lips, this is the outer most tissue closest to where the inner thigh meets the pelvis. In some people the outer labia or lips will be larger than the inner labia, in others the inner labia will be larger. The inner labia are internal to the outer and are usually hairless. The inner labia lead up to the hood of the clitoral head. The clitoris is similar to a penis in that it has a head, a shaft and two legs that go deeper into the body. The opening to the vagina is located within the folds of the lips and closer to the anus, right above the opening is the Urethra which can be another pleasurable place to touch.

So once you have learned your anatomy you can begin to give the vulva the proper attention it deserves. Start from the outside and work in. Start light and then experiment with different pressures. Stroke up the thighs and over the labia. Have fun with the outer labia, squeeze, roll, stretch and play with them. Then move to the inner labia. And on in, working around the clitoris, and then directly on it. Tease at the entrance of the vagina and massage the urethral opening. Really take time with to explore, to see what feels best and to take yourself or your partner into new territories of pleasure. See how long you can go before they are begging for penetration.

There are a number of benefits to giving attention to the vulva. First of all it builds higher levels of pleasure in your partner, which is good for both of you. Secondly it brings more blood flow into the area which causes the vulva and internal tissues inside the vagina to swell. This is wonderful for penetration because the tissues will wrap around your penis of finger. Third this heightened arousal causes swelling of the g-spot which may allow your partner to experience greater sensation and pleasure during penetration. Fourth, your partner will lubricate more. Shall we go on? Obviously you can see the benefits of taking the time to discover all of the delicious folds of the vulva.

In Tantra we learn to slow down, to be in the moment, to let go of chasing orgasm. I invite you to let go and just allow yourself to have fun. Set some time aside to really explore and go slow, ask questions, discover your partner or yourself. You will find that deep in the mystery is a whole new world of uncharted excitement and enjoyment.

Thank you for taking the time to read my newsletter, feel free to contact me with questions and responses to these articles.

Bursting with LOVE